Autism is not a single spectrum.
It's more like a synthesizer.

Filter
Sensory Sensitivity 6
Sensory Seeking 7
Flexibility 4
Need for Predictability 5
Emotional Regulation 4
Stress Tolerance 3
Communication Style 5
Language Processing 6
Pattern Recognition 7
Amplifier
Motor Regulation 5
Social Motivation 4
Autonomy Drive 8
Focused Interests 9
Processing Load 6

Same instrument, different knob settings.